We'll see. Joe is going to go to karate tonight and take the bull by the horns (where is my book entitled, "Take the Bully by the Horns"? I could sure use it now.) He's not going to start a fight (he's incapable of that although sometimes I wish he would), he's just going to try to talk to him. I won't go. I'd get too upset if he insulted me. He didn't seem like the type to do that, but he is. I have some zingers ready in case it ever comes to that. I always come up with the most wonderful come-backs.....about an hour or so after they'd have been of use. It's so upsetting to me probably because I used to be picked on as a kid and I haven't had to deal with that since I became an adult.....until now. Anyway, here is the speech sort of thing that I wrote for my husband to say: