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....by Heather! I was so surprised to see my user id. I too embrace the sentiments that Heather expressed! There were times when I didn't post for months but I could not let go of J/H because of the people. Other sites (besides being more difficult to use and lacking in features) do not let you see the start of so many posts. Here we can easily see if we might have something in common with another blogger or if we might want to express an opinion. I too think of Soraya and miss her. There was also a girl that I used to correspond with early on. She called herself MizSparklez (isn't that adorable?) and is no doubt in college now. In real life I see a teenager and think, "uh-oh, streetgang!", and they probably think, "uh-oh, bossy adult" but on here people of all ages, all countries, and all walks of life can share ideas and e-friendship. Speaking of teens, I know Heather remembers the time when she brought up a concern that others shared--that a guy with let's say really bad values was getting himself added to the friend's list of very innocent kids. We all made an effort to watch his activity and now, thank goodness, he's long gone. I also miss 'the 2nd wife's cafe'. She brought up issues of not exactly embracing her stepchildren and sometimes resenting them. I told her that she couldn't help the way she felt and at least she brought the feelings to the forefront and dealt with them. Then she found a site where 2nd wives did more than grumble...they were unspeakably nasty, so I guess I was kind of right. She was actually a security guard at a church...a mega-huge one in the south. She would actually have to tail the minister's wife during functions and communicate to the base with a radio. I'd never heard of body guards for clergy--wild! I know she has a website somewhere, but once someone leaves, I usually lose track of them, except for The Office Troll!
So thanks to Heather for getting me started on my sentimental ramblings! Love and blessings to all my J/H friends...don't want to name names, too afraid of missing someone. Speaking of missing someone, where is Susy? So come on anyone who happens to read this: Post, comment, socialize! Join this happy group of regulars!
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I know at times I tend to be very outspoken at times, mainly because I am so passionate in my views on political, religious, and especially women's issues.
I have always been about empowerment for women and the disenfranchised, regardless of gender, and I tend to be very protective of my family and friends so when some right wing neocon troll fanatics bash my friends I genuinely feel its my responsibility to defend them, to take a stand, to me thats part of what friendship is about otherwise there is little or no value in friendship. Thats just me and how I feel.
Normally I am reserved, but when "you know who" started to bash my daughter, friends, Alma Mater, and the facualty, insinuating insults and going to a friend's of mines blog and referring to it as "Stupid" [I must be honest and say the comment was posted anonymously but feminine intuition gives me clarity on who it was] I got angry and just let it fly being Irish and a women I just got my Irish up and got emotional in my blogs.
I have nothing against Christians or Christianity in general I love them, however I have a huge problem with what I call Christian bigots that wrap themselves in Christianity to spread their hate and condemnation of anyone that belives different from them politically, theologically or socially. As I have said many times religion with them always starts out with God hates_______ fill in the blank. I was raised Christian but was always taught that God is a Loving God not a God of anger and vengence as they love to portray. In any event I elvolved to more of a Goddess centered form of religion but still retain many Christian values, and many of which were co-opted from paganism and labeled as "Christian"
I too miss Soraya very much she is an angel, so loving and caring I hope and pray all is well with her and family and have faith one day she will return to us at JH. Another nice woman was Dariana she just disappeared one day I miss her too
Female please know that if you need anything or need to talk or someone bothering you you know you can contact me and I will try to help anytime. P.S. I hope all is well with your acupuncture treatments. When they ran the Kentucky Derby a couple of weeks ago I thought of you and Barbaro I will miss that Champion.
I will always wonder if enough was done to keep him alive I suppose they did all they could do and in the end it may have been more humane to put him to sleep then to prolong his suffering, but I also know that decisions are also based on money, I just pray that was not the case with the Great Barbaron He lived like a Champion and died with the honor of a Champion.
((((((((((((((((((((((((Love, Hugs, Blessings Always Fightingfemale))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Sincerely,
All my love,
Heather
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