The other day I was with some close girlfriends of mine and we were discussing men’s increasing demand for women to shave their vulvas.
If you’re a woman, you know that this is true:
It *is* a big deal to get waxed if you don’t want to do it…it hurts, it’s invasive, it’s expensive, and I don’t feel like doing it.
If you’re a man, on the other hand, you probably think that spending $50 to have some stranger rip your pubes out by the roots and leave you with boils and a rash that won’t go down for weeks is as simple as putting your hair up in a ponytail:
You wouldn’t dump a guy who asks you to put your hair up instead of wearing it down. Why dump men who prefer a closely groomed pubic region over a haphazard, wild bush? It’s a simple personal preference. .
So, my question is: why are men so goddamn fucking insensitive? Well, as my friend points out out:
I think what bums me out the most is that women permit this to happen because they keep the means of production completely obscured and make things seem easy and low-maintenance that aren’t even remotely easy or low-maintenance.
True enough; concealing the means of production is what women have been doing for thousands of years. And we’re still at it. Though I gotta wonder: if I can read articles and learn that Brazilian waxing is a torment worthy of Torquemada, why can’t men do the same? Does their reading comprehension drop to zero when the subject is the pain women endure in order to be suitable sexbots?
And then of course there’s this:
I have a friend who is one of the few women I’ve known to dally with much younger men (she’s attractive, rich, late 40’s). Her boy toys are in their 20’s. She has reported to me that she detects the influence of porn in the younger generation. The sex is more like performing an imitation of the visuals in your head. The men are less present, she says, then they used to be. The preference for shaved pussy goes along with this.
I swear, it never fails to amaze me how much some men hate women. Women want love, passion, and relationship with other human beings; men want inflatable dolls.!!!!!!!!
Heather™