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A situationThe boyfriend (we will call him G) worked the day shift which actually meant being gone eleven hours a day. The girlfriend (M) didn't work. She has emotional and mental problems. She can't sleep so she would be up from the time he got up in the a.m. until hours after he goes to bed every night. Well G decideds to go to the night shift which puts him out of the house from 3:30 until about 3:30. When he gets home, he showers and goes right to bed. Ok so here is the point of the story, when he worked days she saw him tow hours a day and then he was spending time with the kids. (Not that that was a bad thing) By the time she got the kids in bed, he was asleep too. Now that he works nights, he doesn't see the kids at all, he doesn't see her cause he sleeps until an hour before he goes to work, and he comes home and goes right back to bed so no one sees him then either. She is begining to fell like it is just a place for him to sleep and she doesn't really believe that is a "relationship" but a roommate. The worse part about it is that even though he has Friday through Monday night off, it seems like they are at a loss for what to say to each other or even how to be in the same room at those times. Both of them seem to be unhappy to be in the situation and maybe even the relationship but the problem is they just walk around smiling at each other. Now her, I know for a fact, is screaming on the inside to break free of the pattern even if it means ending this forever long relationship. She is tired of just being there but not being with anyone. I think he feels the same but is scared to let go. But the whole thing hit home when a friend said (when he was working days) how lonely it was when she was up at 2 a.m. all alone and she didn't even think about it and says that it is lonely all the time. He never so much as acknowledges the meaning and goes on to ask the friend how her husband is doing. Now at the time we all thought he didn't want to bring it up at the time but later when they are alone he never mentions it and sure hasn't tried to do anything to fix it. But wait wait .... there is more to the story...... She also tried to hold the family together for the last 9 months all by himself, even through his comments (such as "It is my life I will do what I want" or "I am a grown ass man" but then calls her when he goes to jail and yells at her when she can't come up with the $2000 to bail him out) but he never gave a damn except to yell at her and belittle her. Then she finally gives up and he decides to it is important to try and make it work. But then he tries for a few days and goes right back to the same shit. SO now what does she do? Does she stay? Does she go? Does she try again but from a different homes for right now? What, oh what, to do? 8:44 AM - 10/5/2005 - post commentShare and enjoy
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