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10/13/2010 - Proverbs 25:11-12 Golden Apples of Truth

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SCRIPTURE: Proverbs 25:11-12 Timely advice is lovely, like golden apples in a silver basket. 12 To one who listens, valid criticism is like a gold earring or other gold jewelry.

OBSERVATION: Advice can be lovely or it can be a cause of conflict and pain. A big part of the difference is this simple word of direction--make it timely. Don't try to advise someone when they are already upset. Don't try to advise someone when they have other things they must concentrate on. The best course, often, is to praise what you can, immediately after the event, when someone does their best (like taking a test, playing in a sporting event, or performing in front of a croud) and then present advice when they are in a receptive mood as they are preparing for the next time they do this "thing". That is often when it is most timely--and most useful, and most beautiful.
On the other hand, if we are receiving advice, be open to it. Seldom is the person trying to destroy us, even if they are a bit ham-handed in the way they present it. We should see the other's perspective as our friend. They are caring enough for us to help us to be better people. They may not be right--but we can honor the attempt and learn what we can.

APPLICATION: I need to be careful, especially with my staff, when and how I give advice. Too often I just let-er-rip when I should be looking more carefully for the right moment--the perfect timing. I know it would make my advice more effective and that is what I want to be.

PRAYER: Lord, help me to give and to recieve advice with a load of grace. May my words be with grace and my reception of others be with grace as well.

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