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Friendship is a concept that it seems today so few people truly grasp and understand the meaning of. The word frienship now seems to be thrown around hapzardly and everyone a person might spend 5 mins talking to suddnely gets dubbed as a friend. But to me this a firend does not make. Friendship is something more then that. It goes beyond that. The word friendship should be as sacred and carefully placed as the words I love you. I have very few friends, becasue of this. I will not dawn just anyone I talk to as a firend. I have people that I like and that I enjoy speaking with but that alone does not make them friend. That just makes them aquintences. A friend is a person you can trust completely, someone who you do not fear you have to hide anything from but whom you are freely yourself with and share your thoughts and feelings with. A firend is someone who you can disagree with without it turning into a fight and without them getting angery with you. Someone you can be honest with. A friend is someone who should be family, even if not related by blood. Friendship should be a give and take relationship, a relationship where you are willing and wanting to do for them without exepcting anything in return and someone whom would do for you without a seceret agenade. Someone who will always make the time for you and be there when you need them. All too often it seems there are one sided freindships established, friendships that work more like the relationship between a host and its parasite where one person is simply using the other and only comes around when they need something. This a friend does not make.
3:00 PM - 2/9/2006 -
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