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Advice Maybe?

Something happend and I am at a loss as to what I should do or what I want to do, and well perhaps some of you can offer me some insight which might help to guide me just now, becasue I am at a loss. I called my dearly beloved and he was in a bad mood and with good reason about his roomates. He made this joke out of frustartion and I know he did not mean anything by it, and he said he was sorry afterwords but I did not appercaite the joke. But because for one thing I knew he was already in a bad mood and I sympathized with him, and becasue I do not do well on the phone becasue of a phobia I have about phones I let it slide at the time, but now it is just sort of itching at the back of my mind. I do not want to make a big thing about it nor do I want to be all melo-dramatic. I know he didn't mean anything by it and I know he loves me, but I still am put off by it and I am wondering if I should mention it to him next time we talk or just let it go and forget about it all togehter. I know that I can sometimes can overeact to little things and I do not want to seem like I am getting on his case, I am not even really mad at him per sae, just put off by what he said. I don't kow what I should do.

1:14 PM - 9/8/2006 - post comment

Hmmmmm
I can't keep wondering how out of character it was for him. I'd ask myself if this was the first time he ever said anything like that--so you can look for trends or clues to some trait he's kept hidden. If he doesn't know mention it again because maybe he doesn't know it upset you, I don't think it would hurt for you to bring it up as long as you don't go on and on about it.
Fightingfemale - 3:31 PM - 9/8/2006

G'DAY SILVERWIND.
I don't think it would hurt to just mention that it hurt you and just ask can we talk calmly about it. If it happens again and you see a pattern starting well then you can decide what's best to do from there.A good relationship needs open honest communication and so I think just asking gently can we talk about it and then telling him that it hurt you very much will be good for your long term relationship. Hope this two cents worth has helped you a little. Love and ((((hugs)))) from Dawnie :-)
DAWNIE - 5:07 PM - 9/8/2006

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If it is still on your mind when you talk to him again, then you should mention it. Don't hold it in just to let it come out at an inappropriate time.
inamorata - 8:54 PM - 9/8/2006

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Thank you all for your help and insight, and when the help of your comments and opinions I have decided the best way to handle the sitituation, I do plan on mentioning it to him next time I speak with him, but in a very calm way to let him know how I feel but not make a big deal about it and I will explain why I did not say anything at the time when it first happend.
SilverWind - 10:16 PM - 9/8/2006

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