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I am listning to the radio, and they are doing this thing right now, talking all about different fetishes people have and first this woman called in saying she had this boyfriend who decided one day to try one some of her underwear, and then after that decided he really liked that, and she ended up dumping him becasue of it, though she said that was just one of the factors, you could tell by the way she said it, it was a pretty big factor, and then this other person called in and said that he liked to wear womens underwear but his wife did not like him to do it, and it seems I hear of that happen often, women dumping men just because they like to wear women's undergarments, and to me that seems almost unfair in a way.
If you meet someone and you really like them, and they are a really decent guy, like in the case in which the woman married the guy, so apperently she thinks he has really good qualities and she loves him, and thinks he is a good guy, so why not let him have that? What real harm could it possibly do if that is one thing in which he enjoys and it makes him happy. I can appercaite the fact that yeah it might seem a little strange at first and it is perhaps a touch weird, but I still do not see that as a valid reason to dump someone whom you otherwise care for and whom you think is a good person in all other aspects.
That came up a lot alos on that site Don't Date Him that I decdied was too vicicious and immature for my tastes, but there were several instances of people posting that you should not date so and so becasue they like to wear women's underweart, but that alone does not make someone a bad guy.
I think that if my beloved was up front with me about it, and told me, hey this is something I would like to do, I would entertain the idea and I would let him have that if he wanted, to me it is only really a problem when they keep it a seceret and try to hide it and you find out about it by accident, becasue then it becasue an issue of trust and lying and you wonder what else they might be hiding, but if they are honest about it, then why not?
9:25 AM - 3/27/2007 -
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