First Impressions

I have always had this uncanny ability to tell just how I am going to get along with a person in the first 5 secounds of talking to them, it has always been the case with me, that really what happens in those first 5 secounds, determines how my entier relationship or non-relationship as case may be will go with a person.

I can not really think of a time in which this has not been the case, I do not think there has ever been a case in which my feelings or thoughts of a person has drasictly changed from what they were on that initial first meeting with them. The way it is with me, if I do not intially and naturally clique with a person right off the bat, it just is not going to happen, no amount of time is going to change that, and just as well, there has never been a time in which I cliqued with someone right away but then after a couple days or more, as I got to know them suddenly was like totally wrong about them.

Over a course of years I might loose touch with people and things might happen, it does not nessciarly mean that I will be firends with someone forever just becasue I clique with them right away, but that is always something that happens gradually overtime and in that it is not as if my initial feelings for them drasticaly change or because, as I get to know them more, they are suddenly like a different person then I had frist thought, it is just the course of life sometimes, and usually I change with them in my own way.

And on the other side, if there is someone who I do not just hit spot on with in that first instant meeting, it is not nessciarly becasue they just come off as a total jerk at first and are clearly an asshole, in some cases they can come acorss, and be, a very nice and decent person, and it is not as if I even dislike them really, I could find nothing really wrong with them at all, I just for whatever reason feel a really close tie to them if it is not ignitied in that very first meeting, even if I like them and continue to speak to them, I won't really connect with them or quite accept them fully as a firend but see the more or less as an aquintence and I will maintian a certain aloofness from them.

And the people who I am now really close to and feel like I can confide in and whom I count among my close intimate friends, they are people that I did within the first 5 secounds of talking to, feel an immideiate and sudden bound with them and just knew instantly that we would be friends.

8:07 AM - 3/29/2007 - post comment

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