I decided to start this blog because finally after more then 30 years I have found happiness. It wasn't easy to get to this point. It took a lot of searching. Soul searching, trying to figure out what I wanted in life, what was missing and finally who I wanted to share my new life with. It took a long time to get to this point. I have learned a lot along the way. I experienced extreme lonliness even though my significant other was in the same room. I raised my children alone, even though I had a husband during that time. I went to holiday gatherings alone, parties...alone, sports my children participated....alone. So much being alone and back then I wondered why my marrage wasn't working. Duh...I was alone. No one should be alone.
But back then that's the way I thought it should be. I was in charge of the children and the household. I did the food shopping, cleaning, laundry, etc. He went off to work and took care of the outside chores. How wrong I was. I learned in my new life with my husband, we share everything, housework, outside chores, food shopping, raising kids. Well, our kids are grown now, but we consult each other if a problem occurs. And though we don't always agree on things or the way they should be done, we listen to each other and learn there are two sides of everything.
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2/13/2008 - Hi