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Royal Scroll

• 3/14/2006 - 03-14-06

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    My father is an amazing creature. He has never had anything to do with me. I have only met him once, I was too young to remember the encounter. He denied I was his for 13 years, until my sister got married then suddenly he remembered he had another daughter.
   I decided to write him when I turned 18. We wrote back and forth until about 4 years ago. Then everything just stopped. I pretty much forgot about him lol until my cousin told me a few months back that my grandmother (his mother) had passed away. No one even bothered to inform me.
   A few days ago my cousin called my mother to see if she could give my number to my father. Apparently he had called and asked her for it. Once again there had been another death. This time my grandfather (his father). And my father had been sitting there remembering all the bad he had done to me. If it had been anyone else, or if he had made the slightest effort to get know me then maybe I would have looked forward to a call from him.
   But 30 years of neglect kinda builds up. And I personally don't care what happens to him. It was of his own making. Because of his crap I missed out on meeting my grandparents. I missed out on having a father.
   I say too little too late.
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• 3/14/2006 - Sad!

Posted by Anonymous
So well thought out and expressed. It reminds me of the book, "All Over But the Shouting" by Rick Bragg.
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• 3/14/2006 - Doh!

Posted by Fightingfemale
2nd time today! I'm not anonymous, just forgot to log in!
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• 3/20/2006 - Sometimes

Posted by Anonymously Yours
I do understand..really. Considering my bio father stated I was not his the day I was born because my coloring wasn't what he wanted. BUT (there is always a but there), I I had to make peace with him. No, I have not forgiven him. He died four years ago now, and the only good thing that I actually got out of my 33 years of existence is an inheritance check on its way. The thing is, you need to make peace with it. You don't have to forgive.
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