When I was 16, I dreamed of becoming a famous stage and film actress, my name up in lights, walking the red carpet, splitting my time between New York and LA

When I was 25, I dreamed of a handsome cowboy sweeping me off my feet to live happily ever after on a huge ranch in New Mexico, dancing under the stars and riding off into the sunset

When I was 33, I dreamed of the practice husband meeting an untimely, moderately painful death, freeing me from 1) the marriage 2) the scandal of divorce and maybe even making a little life insurance money out of the deal

So now at 41, I give a shout out to my dear friend LB, currently touring with the cast of the broadway show "Wicked," I have fond (and I do mean fond) memories of cowboys and New Mexico, and the practice husband is now but a faint bump on the roadmap of my life.

Now, at 41, my hand to God, my Ultimate Fantasy is to just sleep past 6:00 am....