Ok I am hopin that this will be the last time for the day I will have to bitch about anything...

I am from the North so I didn't realize until I came to TN that racism is still in full swing in this country. Now I also believe in the freedom of thought and speech as long as it is done outside of my house. I will not go to your house and tell you what to say or not in front of me but if you are at mine then we have a whole new ball game. And even then, it isn't so much as at my house as in front of my kids, ya know. I just want them to learn better than that. I just have no -isms I guess. Not racism, not homophobism, not sexism...wait I guess I do kinda have fatism (ya know where you don't like obese people) but not to the point I don't like them. I just don't want them to touch me. I tend to always see my self as fat so I just don't want them to touch me...I mean it might be contagious. And just so ya know I have fat friends, they just know I don't like to be touched. Yes I know I am an awful person (evil even). I know I am going to hell for judgin people (though I am really not. I don't care if you are fat, just don't put it on me. It may be stuck to me when you leave and you may leave it behind.Then I will be covered in fat again.) I am ok with this. I have made my peace with it.

Anyways back to the subject at hand, ol boy has got just about every -ism known to man. How do you rid a person of things like that? I know people have -isms because of what they are scared of, but damn. So here is the funny part... The other day when he was doin the eminem thing I told him "I don't go to your house talkin about sleepin with black guys. Don't come over to mine talkin about them." The pure look on his face was worth it even if I know i pushed to far. The good news is I haven't seen him since the big blow-up!