• 1/23/2014 - Slay The Insomnia Dragon
Slay the Insomnia Dragon Insomnia is like a dragon that plagues whenever you have a huge test in the morning or a long hard day of work. Yes! It shows itself when you need rest, enough rest to carry you through a tough period or a very stressful venture.
Causes Of Insomnia
- Recent Trauma
- Noisy and Uncomfortable Environment
- Interrupted Routine
Cures for Insomnia
- Behavioural changes may be necessary to cure your insomnia. This includes avoiding naps during the daytime.
- Learn to associate your bedroom with sleep and sex only. Sleep association will tell your brain that it is sleep time as soon as you enter your room. The common practice of reading in bed may work against you, as your body may want to stay up and read with the light on, rather than rest while you sleep.
- Limit your caffeine and alcohol intake. Caffeine and alcohol interferes with your sleeping habit Avoid alcohol and caffeine up to eight hours before bedtime to reduce the possibility of insomnia.
- Avoid naps during the daytime. Taking naps will interfere with your ability to fall asleep at bedtime, during the night. It is recommended that if you do need to take a nap you should limit it to 30 minutes and nap before 3pm.
- Sex is suggested to help insomnia. Many persons fall into a natural sleep after sex. If this matches your natural habits you should try having sex or using a hot pink vibrator to put yourself in the mood for sleep.
• 12/12/2013 - Boosting Our Marriage With A Wild And Naughty Night
In the bedroom and behind closed doors my husband doesn't call me Wild Sister for nothing! I am a big believer in constantly trying new ways to spice up your sex life. It has been proven time and time again by relationship experts that a good healthy sex life, filled with sponetanity is the secret to a long lasting and loving relationship. Want to know more then I recommend this post from the Huffington post : Want Better Sex? Here Are 11 Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship
I think the more sexual tools, devices and knowledge you have on hand, then the better - after all we can all improve - and that goes for in the bedroom to. I am always on the look out for new ways to spice up my marriage and recently I came across a new product that was not only loads of fun, it was great for re-igniting that candle again.
While looking for a new product to bring in to our bedroom I came across the Wild Thing Naughty Night In Pack. This pack was awesome. The pack contained edible body sauce, smooching sauce, warming nipple drops, lubricant and even a condom! Better yet the flavour was a luscious chocolate! I had my husband start on me first ....I blush when I say this....but the night went on and on into the early hours of the morning (we felt like naughty teenagers again).
This product gave a boost to our relationship, it got us out of the 'stuck in the rut' mentality and had us enthusiastic about sex and the relationship again. Its important to remember that we only live once, therefore we need to experiment a little. So what are you going to do this week to nourish your relationship? I would love to hear your ideas.
• 12/10/2013 - Why Sex Is Good For Your Health
Sex not only feels great but it is good for your health too. Women who are sexually active at least two – three times a week reap all sorts of health benefits. Sex keeps your heart healthy by increasing your heart rate and keeping your hormones, testosterone and estrogen, balanced. The more sex you have the healthier your heart will be.
Are you one of those women who do not like exercise? Guess what sex is exercise! Woo-Hoo finally an exercise you enjoy doing. Sex burns off 5 calories every minute so eat that donut and have a sexathon to work off those calories. As a woman gets older or has a few children, her muscles in the pelvic floor get weaker and this can lead to bladder control problems. Having an orgasm tightens the pelvic floor muscles which in return strengthens those muscles and improves bladder control.
“I got a headache honey.” Isn’t really a good excuse to avoid having sex any more , as research has proved that virginal stimulation works better than an aspirin because sex releases a hormone that increases the body’s pain threshold. Having a stressful day, then get intimate (touching, hugging and kissing) and then move it on to having sex, having intercourse releases a happy hormone and the brain responds by releasing chemical that relaxes you.
Having trouble sleeping? then have sex. After having sex, the brain releases a hormone called prolactin, which relaxes the body and allows you to fall asleep quickly. There you go ladies, here is the proof that you should be having more sex - go out and release your inner goddess.
• 12/4/2013 - Me And My Vibrator
No man in your life, don’t have time to go out and pick one up at the club? That sucks but you got a vibrator right? Well at least that is something. However, every woman should have a few vibrators just in case one get lost or gets dropped in the shower you always need a backup. Now, there is no reason to be shy about marching into a sex toyshop and shopping! Although, if you don’t have the time or maybe you are a little shy even though there is no reason to be everyone else in the shop is buying sex toys too. Hey, you might even meet a man there!
Anyway, you can always go to an online adult store but be warned you will be there a while browsing through the site’s numerous vibrators and other sex toys. Shopping online for a vibrator will also give you a chance to see all of the different types of vibrators. You might even be amazed at some of the things they can do. For example, some vibrators have what is called a double penetration that’s right two for the price of one, moving along how about a clit stimulator or a G Spot stimulator!
By the time you are done shopping you just might have a 50-pound discreet package on the way to your house. Of course, we both know it’s not the package you really want to unwrap but we all have to make do sometimes!
• 12/2/2013 - Choosing a lubrication
A big part of having enjoyable sex is choosing the right lube, however with the endless choices available today how do you choose? I have been buying and trying different lubricants for some time. The best idea for finding the right lubricant for yourself is to start on the internet and just casually look at the descriptions of the products and the product features.
Maybe you are looking for something that is edible or maybe you just want a simple silicon lubricant. Which lubricant I use, more times that not, depends on how feisty of a mood I am in at that moment. I can remember the days when you only had choices at the pharmacy or in an adult shop (showing my age now). However thanks to the growing market I don’t have to worry about where I am buying my lubricants anymore. For me the choice is simple. I have been shopping on and not only is the experience discreet, there is a huge range of products to try. At the moment I am trialing and thoroughly enjoying this Water-Based Warming Lubricant.
If you are just starting out you might want to try a combination pack of smaller quantities. This way you can have the proper time to figure out which flavour, sensation, and added stimulation you experience. For me I really like something that is edible but yet very moisturizing too. I have my preferences but those preferences will have to be explained at a later date. Once you have tried one or two different brands, check back with me for more advice or leave a comment.
• 3/12/2013 - Have You Heard Of These 4 Different Types Of Fetishes?
Have You Heard Of These 4 Different Types Of Fetishes?
Sex is normally a very complex issue for many people. However, it does not necessarily need to be so. For instance, most people think that fetishes are weird, and that if you have one then you may be a sexual misfit. However, most fetishes are merely a reflection of an individual’s sexual desires. Of course, a number of them may be harmful, but majority of them are very harmless and some are actually interesting.
One of the questions you may be asking yourself is why you would want to learn more about fetishes. This normally comes into play when you are looking for a way to spice up your sex life. For instance, if you are a married woman and are looking for a way to put some excitement back in your sex life, one of the ways of doing this would be to find out what fetishes your husband has, and then use this as a way to improve the quality of your sex life. When you think about it lightly, you may assume that this will only serve to please your husband based on this description. However, the fact of the matter is that there are times when you may also benefit from this as well. For instance, after you have found out the fetish that your husband has, you may also find it arousing to act it out. Some of the most common fetishes that people have and which you may need to be familiar with include:
There are some people who are normally very excited about the kinds of shoes that a woman wears. However, this does not mean that any kind of shoe will do. Most of the time, the shoes in questions are ones that cast the wearer in sexy light, such as high heels. In order to excite someone who has this kind of fetish, you would need to find shoes that are designed to be of very high quality, and which make you look sexy. In fact, you can go shopping with them to find such shoes.
Fishnet stocking fetishes
Of course, most men are usually excited by this kind of clothing. However, this effect is normally very intense in a few people, to the point of it being a fetish as opposed to a normal reaction to sexy clothing. The kinds of clothing that can cause this effect include fishnets, sheer clothing as well as all other kinds of lingerie. Once again, in order for them to have this effect, they normally have to be of very high quality and also well fitting. This means that when you realize that your partner has this fetish and go shopping for such clothing, you would need to make sure that you are careful so as not to end up with clothing that may possibly have the opposite effect.
This is the most common kind of fetishism in the world. It basically involves people being sexually aroused by others’ feet. When you realize that your partner has this kind of fetish, it may be a good idea to take extra care of your feet, since this means that they will definitely end up having an enhanced effect on them. Fortunately, this is not very difficult to do. You can always try to do things such as keeping your feet clean and also making sure that you trim your nails properly in order for this to happen. Additionally, you can try out some kinds of clothing that may show off your feet, such as wearing sheer stockings.
There are some people who are also very attracted by different kinds of skirts. For instance, there are those that are very attracted to women wearing short skirts, and others prefer tight long ones. In addition to that, there are some that also have a fetish for the kind of material these kinds of clothing are made of. For instance, some of them will be very excited about skirts that are made out of materials such as leather, while others will be more interested in ones that are made of a softer material.
How can you find out which fetish your loved one enjoy?
The above are just some of the many fetishes that people have these days. However, if you are thinking of using them as leverage when spicing up your sex life, your first agenda would be to find out which fetish your loved one has. There are many ways of doing this. Of course, you could simply be straightforward and ask them about it. Most people will give you this information, especially if they are very comfortable around you.
If you find it difficult to do this, you can use another approach to find out more about it. For instance, you could try out different outfits and then observe how your partner behaves. When you notice them paying more attention to you when you are wearing a particular piece of clothing, you can assume that they have some kind of fetish for that, and you can then try and capitalize on this to make your sex life more interesting.
If they have a fetish for a body part, you can also figure this out by simply observing how they treat different parts of your body. If you notice that they pay attention to a part of your body that is normally not associated with sensuality, then you can assume that they have a fetish for that part of the body. However, this is not a hard and fast rule; there are many cases where this is not the case.
The above are just a few of the common fetishes out there, and also how you can turn them into ways of making your sex life more exciting. As you can see, these kinds of things are not very strange, and very many people have them. Instead of treating them like something to be ashamed of, you can always use them in the manner described above, as long as they are not harmful to any one of you.
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