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too bad life doesn't have any background music, that's why we don't know what to feel..

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Saying something stupid like "I love you"...

LOVE...the four letter word that everyone practically knows....for most teens...well, its a very used word.."I think I'm inlove"..I love him, I love her...He loves me...She loves me...he loves me not..he loves me...etc...

 

Love is very subjective...it is viewed differently by everyone..it does not have a universal meaning. More often people think of infatuation as love..I maybe one of those people. Crushes are normal. But when it gets more serious than just trying to find his cp number through his firends or peeking in his classes just to get a glimpse of his face, being stunned whenever you watch him play basketball and think of him as a hottie, then its not infatuation.

 

What does it take to fall in love? Does being in love feel like you're walking on cloud nine? Is it a feeling of fulfillment? Probabaly. Don't forget, love is after all, subjective. Just like beauty.



This feeling......is weird. I've felt it. I'm feeling it right now..everyday...=) But what does it take to make a relationship work?Is love enough? I don't think so. Love is not enough to make a relationship work. Sometimes when one is in love, he/she feels like they could do anything they want. Its like drugs. Its addictive...it makes you feel high. But love, like drugs, needs to be controlled. If you get too much and depend on it, it kills you slowly.

A person needs other values to make a relationship work..
TRUST is very important. If a couple does not have trust then jealousy would always come along. It can cause so much misery for both parties..and eventually they would break up. Jealousy is sometimes healthy. not always. And lack of trust would sure be one heck of a problem in a relationship.
UNDERSTANDING is another important value. In order for the raltionship to survive, they must understand each other. Constant and open communication is needed. They need to know what's going through each other's heads. They have to know both sides of parties and they need understanding for them to sort out whatever problems that they might encounter.
"LAMBINGAN"..hahahahhahaha everyone needs this. The feeling that someone wants their attention. Even if its saying the cheesiest or corniest line to your partner, its still very important. A relationship needs this. I heard once on tv that "and lambing ay parang exercise, habang tumatagal mong ginagawa, lalo kang gumagaling dito"....so we should always do what the song says "magexercise tayo tuwing umaga.."...hahahaha
RESPECT is far the most important value after love itslef that is needed in the relationship. How can you love without respect? Respect has many roles in a relationship. The couple must have respect for each other. Their decision, actions, and feelings. Without respect, there wouldn't be any love at all.

There are many other things that a relationship other than what I have mentioned. Love is a process.......its very very hard to define. I can't even explain it, I just feel it. Whatever keeps two people in love is a combination of all these things. Love hurts, love is blind, love is whatever you want to say about it. My description seems weird huh? Well...what can I say...I'm in love eh

Posted: 12:34 AM, 2/22/2008
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