The title sounds very familiar...hmmm.. As I entered my first class in
PERSEF1, I had no idea what to expect. So its a non-academic class, then what
are we supposed to learn or study in this class? Well, PERSEF1 is all about us,
individuals. The different aspects in life that we would encounter and are
facing in our lives. We had discussed modules about love, leadership, etc. My
favorite modules were the modules about Love and the module wherein we made the
"Banig ng Buhay". The module about love allowed me to listen to other
people’s thoughts and opinions about the matter. Sharing about courtship,
relationships, break ups and the roles of both parties involved in the
relationship were discussed. Since I have been and currently is in a
relationship, I was able to compare m opinions with theirs. It’s really funny
how girls and boys think differently. There is a difference on how they view
certain aspects in a relationship. Even the LQ or the petty fights that a
couple encounters was discussed. I was able to realize that other people too
have the same problems that my bf and I have. I enjoyed making the “Banig ng
Buhay”. The activity made me look back at the happenings in my life, my ups and
downs. Though I did have some difficulty in writing down my failures, I knew I
had to accept it and move on. I like thinking about the future, what age would
I have a family, when will I get married, how will I die, etc. It just makes me
feel like even if things in life are uncertain, I still have a plan. This is
the life that I want, and I would do anything just to have it. It gives me a
sense of responsibility and the opportunity to decide for myself. It makes me
feel like I’m my own boss, I make the rules, and I make things happen. Surely
this activity had a great impact on me. I was actually smiling as I was writing
down the age I would have kids, how many kids would I have, etc. I have a great
family, however, all families have problems. And sometimes I consider living
away from my family a disadvantage. So if ever I do have my own family, I want
us to stay together, to live together because I know how hard it is to live
away from your parents, I know what it feels like and I know how it deeply
affects the child.
I was very
shy in PERSEF1, for one reason because I knew no one. I entered the class
without knowing anybody so it was kind of hard for me to be spontaneous and be
myself. However, that didn’t hinder me from learning and being able to shape my
own thoughts in class. Though I don’t recite in class, I still am able to think
about the modules and I do reflect on them. I have a lot going through my head
and PERSEF1 exposed me to the realities of life. This course really helped me
to gain more knowledge about my responsibilities now that I am in college. I
found out more about the roles I am parting in. And I realized the effect that
I have on other people.
PERSEF1 is
not just about the SELF. It is also about our impact to other people. How can
we affect them and how they affect us? But with modules like Etiquette, I
gained more confidence since I know have an idea on how to act or to behave
with certain kind of people in particular situations. It gives me a better
understanding of what is proper. What to do and what not to do. Since I am in
the field where I have to deal and interact with people as my profession, these
modules helped me to know what offends other people, and what seems pleasant to
their eyes. The modules that talk about us being citizens of the country and of
the world helped me to see the bigger picture of my life.
PERSEF1 was
not what I expected. The schedule for this class was 8 in the morning, so I
would attend class feeling kind of sleepy. But this course, though we meet only
once a week, helped me shape my personality. I became more knowledgeable of my
responsibilities and the different roles I have. I am now aware of the issues
that I will encounter as I go on through life. I am more confident since I am
aware of the things I need to do. PERSFE1 challenged me to become a better
person. The module about leadership opened my eyes to the obligations that I
need to fulfill. Even at an early age, I am expected to do things well. I will
bring with me the lessons taught in PERSF1 as I grow as a person. I may not
remember the exact modules or theories discussed, but how I live my life would
be a reflection of the things I have learned. Life is an exam I have to pass, it’s
a good thing I have my PERSEF1 notes to guide me
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