What can a guy do when his woman just doesnt want as much sex as the guy does?
- Talk about her emotional involvement in the relationship. Is she in love with your or not? Happy? Satisfied?
- Let her know how important sex and emotional involvement both are to you
- Emphasize how emotionally close to her when sex makes feel good
- Emphasize making the relationship better and more committed, especially in the long-term
- Tell her honestly how it hurts your male ego and sense of yourself as a man when she says, "NO"
- Discuss whether it is the relationship or her own basic level of sexual interest that keeps your lovemaking so infrequent
- Discuss your level of commitment and her level of sexual interest
- Propose a trade of more frequent sex per week and you giving her something she wants in exchange
- Talk about whether she comes easily or at all, and what turns her on
- Ask how you can make her (the woman) happier in and out of bed
- Ask for a guided tour of her clitoris and how she likes to be stimulated
- Discuss whether she needs more foreplay, and what kind
- Dont compete with her vibrator? Be a good friend with you
- Buy a vibrator for her. Encourage her to use it, especially while you make love
- Give her the book, "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man," so she understands how important sex is to a man, and how powerful she is in the relationship when she has enthusiastic sex with her Good Man.
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