Ask yourself: what do you want most in my life? What I found in my research, and what it was certainly true for myself was that most women want both love and marriage more than anything else in their lives. If this true for you, then I suggest the following top five resolutions.
- Make your first resolution of 2007 to find love and marriage this year: Make it your highest priority: focus on love and marriage as a goal, spend time working toward that goal, and be willing to spend money on accomplishing that goal.
- Be more sexy, not sexual (unless youre in a committed relationship). Remember: sex does not get you married; sexy attracts the attention of men. Always be classy in your sexiness, to attract Good Men.
- Work out to attract Good Men to you. Although this may not be politically correct to say, I believe your third resolution is to work out to attract Good Men to you, since men are so visual. Dont chase men, as I did so unsuccessfully. Instead, attract them to you with your femininity and beauty. And spend money on your clothes, your makeup, and your health in order to be more beautiful. We women are lucky. When we work on our beauty, men will also tend to see as more feminine and secy. Or if were more feminine, theyll also see us as sexier and more beautiful. Work on any ONE of these areas and men will see you as more ATTRACTIVE in all THREE areas.
- Lose weight until you are at your most attractive weight. Not skinny or too thin, but your best, healthiest, most attractive weight. My fourth suggestion is again, not very politically correct---but it is practically correct. Again, we have to remember that since men are so visual, they are attracted to a woman who is at her best---her most attractive---weight. You need a plan---not a diet---to get and maintain your best, most attractive weight, in order to be ATTRACTIVE and ATTRACT the mans eyes. My American Geisha Weigh Loss Plan has nothing to do with food, calories, and portion sizes: thats a diet, and diets dont work. My plan focuses on just two things: record and stay aware of your weight and your exercise on a DAILY basis. Specifically, keep a daily weight and exercise chart on your refrigerator so that you are always aware and conscious on a daily and continuing basis of what your weight is and how much exercising you and doing. Staying aware is the key.
- Date only Good Men. Do not waste your precious time dating Wrong men. In "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha," I help you to define who a Good Man is for you. You make progress toward love and marriage with a Good Man only when you date Good Men, one of whom you will ultimately choose as your husband.
Adapted from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (Hunter House) |
