It's been a loooong time since i write anything.. First am busy with work and juggling dates, second, am doing research on my girls go ga-ga over bartenders.

At the club, i noticed 40% of the girls like going out to discos after work. I decided to follow them for a bit of fun. I also happen to see that 10% of them have a thing for bartenders. I thought 'hmmmm, must be the free drinks and flaring skills!'

My childhood friend Mel's brother was here on holiday for a week and she seemed reluctant to meet him. Reason: "I always have to pay for everything"

I was happy with Eleanor and we did meet up with her brother when Zouk closed. Upon arrival, i was stunned looking at her brother. Yup, he was gorgeous and persistant despite me being nasty to him. The whole idea was to let Mel know that i'll never date her brother since she knows the shit that i'm up to.

She left to London on the same flight as her brother and i thought to myself, oh well, maybe i'll see him again in October since he promised me to come back on a holiday.

Then the unexpected happened. He came back after two days cause his work permit expired in Manchester and they sent him back here immediately!

When he called me, i was happy but not very excited though. Yes, there was chemistry and he is smart but just not for me. I blame it on the horoscope.

Then i went out with him and i realised something, he's a gigolo. Yes, no offense, bartenders!

He didn't even offer to pay for anything and he demands a lot. His excuse: I'm broke.

Come on, that's the lamest excuse i've ever heard in my life. He came in 6th in the bartending worldwide competition with 48 countries competing. Offered a job in a bartending school in Manchester and he's telling me he's broke. I assumed it runs in the family cause Mel would always do the same with men!

So i went to work and started asking all the girls who actually go out with bartenders. One said "You don't actually get serious with these boys. You go to the club, get free drinks and buy them supper or drinks when they're done with work".  Another said "I use them for sex and company since there's not much men available when im done with work here on boring days like Mondays".

Ahaa, so some of the bartenders are actually the opposite sex of a hostess girl. In other words, 'The male Host'

Nah, i'm not buying into all that shit. I can afford my own drinks and i don't need to keep a duck in order to entertain my life. I can always depend on Hot American to tease me and make me feel beautiful even during my bad hair day!

That's why, i'll be the last person on earth to date bartenders....