what does being a woman mean ? is it being a housewives and cildren and look after them? is it being successful in one's career? is it the same as being a man?
I live somewhere where a woman has a role: be a mother. and everything that is different than that is considered forbidden. I m in a college now, but at the end all this education will be hidden in case I don't have a man after certain age. At the same time, there is no room for intimate relationship before marriage, that would mean shame to the family. How I m a supposed to make myself a path with this? and boys, except a very few open minded one, know that their role is to deflore the maximum girls, but when it's time to marry, then they rely on their moter's opinions, which mean: a honorable girl that no one had touched, as ignorant's possible, and as young as possible. there is no room left for this category of women that wanted to have a life besides a husband.
I m sick from this hypocrisy. Women of middle class that want to acheive some liberty are regarded as dangerous, and this compagn for veil is making it worse. I m not against veil, but I think that we are free to choose to do it or not, not being forced by a society that claims being liberal and open, but in the shadow kill every will that women could have.
God, will you give us one day the light to to follow the right raod?
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