10/14/2010 - Dr. David
Greetings,
My first encounter with a man coming on to me was just amonth after my husband past away. It was my daughter's gynicologist. Both, my husband and i knew him for many years, but only in a profesional way. He delivered all of my daughter's four children. Her first child, I was in the delivery room with her. It was a wonderful experience and he doctor was very professional.
Anyway, after he found out that my husband passed away, he kept asking my daughter and son-in-law why i was not at the hospital. They both told him I was at home and baby sitting the other children. He asked several times. Then when we had to go back for her six week check up, he acted so strange and kept staring, stuttering and became very nervous. My daughter was wondering what was wrong with him and then she knew when he followed us out to the desk and said, "No charge."
He called me, but he seemed very nervous and I was "not" interested. I was still in shock of loosing my husband and i thought, "What is wrong with this guy?" I found out several months later, that he had liked me for a very long time, but he was married and then when his marriage was over, mine was still very strong so he never said anything. But, when Alan died, he just jumped too soon.
Yes, if I had the opportunity "now" I would have very much liked to have gotten to know him a bit better. But, I really never want to ever marry anyone ever again. Why? I am happy with my life as it is and I do not want to be anyone else's wife.... not ever. I loved too much the one I had been married with for most of my life.
Now, after this on-line dating thing.... I am really sure I do not want a relationship.
